{"id":888,"date":"2025-01-13T08:27:47","date_gmt":"2025-01-13T08:27:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/?p=888"},"modified":"2025-01-13T08:27:47","modified_gmt":"2025-01-13T08:27:47","slug":"pals","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/?p=888","title":{"rendered":"PALS"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>They say we can\u2019t be pals, that it can never be,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Why? You ask, no room for platonic with opposites, apparently,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Temptation has the final say, unless one of us is gay,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hook-ups are inevitable, getting fresh inevitable as day,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Can\u2019t fight biology, urges and all, put \u2018em together long enough, clothes are bound to fall,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And don\u2019t get started on situations when one or both are committed,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They may stay faithful, others lack respect and discipline, it\u2019s a one-in-two-chance, why even risk it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Better keep an eye on \u2018em, so they\u2019re sayin\u2019, \u2018lest you want to lose \u2018em,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Guys and gals just can\u2019t be pals, don\u2019t say they didn\u2019t warn ya.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But who are they to presume that all are crude and crass?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That it\u2019s straight to the sack as soon as they cross paths?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How little trust must you have towards \u2018em if you ain\u2019t letting \u2018em mingle with others, can\u2019t control \u2018em 24\/7, you ain\u2019t their mother or father,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sounds like y\u2019all are projecting your own lack of self-control, perhaps your own insecurities,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How\u2019d you feel if the tables were turned? If they\u2019re dictating with whom you\u2019re allowed to converse,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If there\u2019s love and respect they\u2019d behave themselves, never do you dirty,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So leave that distrust at the door, no one looks good oozing petty jealousy,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And what if they befriended the opposite gender before they met their significant other?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They supposed to leave them behind? Their ride or dies for life?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your issues aren\u2019t their burden, your paranoia could cause them to flick ya,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The hell you even doing with \u2018em if you ain\u2019t trusting \u2018em? That shit sounds fucking counter-productive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sit and chill out, let \u2018em all be pals,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You wouldn\u2019t want the same treatment, to have your own circles limited,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But of course, there\u2019s also that proverbial elephant in the room,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This can only work if both parties agree to keep it cool,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No catching feelings, no silly business and fooling around,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If one or both can\u2019t or won\u2019t then it\u2019s obviously a big, glaring \u2018nope\u2019,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But if they\u2019re just hanging out, chopping up like a couple of buds,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No need to get worked up, let \u2018em have friends while you have yours,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And if they ran together long before you\u2019d arrived, your demands to separate \u2018em instantly disqualified, couples aren\u2019t always certain but true friendship lasts forever.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>They say we can\u2019t be pals, that it can never be, Why? You ask, no room for platonic with opposites, apparently, Temptation has the final say, unless one of us is gay, Hook-ups are inevitable, getting fresh inevitable as day, Can\u2019t fight biology, urges and all, put \u2018em together long enough, clothes are bound to &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/?p=888\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;PALS&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-888","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorised"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/888","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=888"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/888\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=888"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=888"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=888"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}