{"id":743,"date":"2022-09-02T09:37:28","date_gmt":"2022-09-02T09:37:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/?p=743"},"modified":"2022-09-02T09:37:28","modified_gmt":"2022-09-02T09:37:28","slug":"cutting-a-man-loose","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/?p=743","title":{"rendered":"Cutting A Man Loose"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Afternoon strolls, always a favorite pastime of mine,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sunnies on, head up, no chitchat, nothing to break my\nstrides,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Saw him from the corner of my eye, out and about on his\nlonesome,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A significant figure from my past, been almost twenty since\nwe saw each other last,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Had to do a double take, surely these eyes must be tricking,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not much \u2018bout him changed, save for some subtle signs of\nageing,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some greys here and there, lines near the eyes, hadn\u2019t seen\nhim since graduation,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s more than twenty years, I wonder if he remembers who\nI am?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Only one way to find out, gonna run up on this dude,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s now or never, excuse the attitude, hope he won\u2019t think\nI\u2019m crude.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cHey, Bud. Remember me?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A smile spread across his features, this surely was a random\nencounter,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cHey, how\u2019ve you been? So good to see you,\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cAin\u2019t nothing changed, Brother, seems like the same for you\ntoo,\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We walked for a while, exchanging war stories from our\nlives,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sat down on a bench eventually, chopped it up \u2018til the sun\nstarted disappearing,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Seemed like old times once more, but then it occurred to me,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Something different about him now, of the type rather sad\nand melancholy,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Change is inevitable, no one is spared,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019ll do its work as the time passes, better go with it or be\nleft in the ashes,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But it ain\u2019t always sunshine and rainbows, the good and the\nbad come together,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Enhancing some aspect of our lives while deteriorating\nothers,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In his case he seemed to have it all, working his dream job\nand generally having a ball,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But his demeanour seemed unfamiliar, at least from the kid\nthat I\u2019d known before.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He was positivity personified during years past,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Up for fun and laughs at the drop of a hat, couldn\u2019t get\ncooler than that,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In the present he seems bitter, not talking so much as\nranting,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Harbouring bitterness and hatred in seemingly equal\nmeasures,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Seemingly contemptuous at what once set his soul aflame,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sure, we acquire knowledge and changed interests along the\nway, from birth \u2018til death we rarely stay the same,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The contrast, still, of the past and the present was kind of\nsad and disturbing,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018Is this really the same dude? Or just someone with more\nthan a passing resemblance?\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Still, we continued to converse, most of it spent\nreminiscing on the past,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Every once in a while bursting into fits of belly laughs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Time flew, soon it was time to get going,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Agreed to meet up again but such sentiments seem to mean\nnothing,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Life gets busy after all, we keep moving different\ndirections,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We may cross paths again but fat chance of that happening,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Probably for the best, what I\u2019d learned about him left me\nkinda depressed,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What happened to my friend? From sunshine to cloud the dude\nfell off the deep end,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Once upon a time could talk to him about anything,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At times found myself tip-toeing \u2018round eggshells during our\nlittle reunion,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Was tempted to ask him what brought about this\ntransformation,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But better to leave the proverbial can closed, don\u2019t want to\nclean up the contents, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If this is it then perhaps it\u2019s best to wish him well, even\nif we\u2019re strangers once more,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hold on tight to memories of when we were small, teammates\nand brothers of sorts.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Afternoon strolls, always a favorite pastime of mine, Sunnies on, head up, no chitchat, nothing to break my strides, Saw him from the corner of my eye, out and about on his lonesome, A significant figure from my past, been almost twenty since we saw each other last, Had to do a double take, surely &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/?p=743\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Cutting A Man Loose&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-743","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorised"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/743","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=743"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/743\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=743"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=743"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=743"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}