{"id":677,"date":"2022-02-08T08:40:13","date_gmt":"2022-02-08T08:40:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/?p=677"},"modified":"2022-02-08T08:40:13","modified_gmt":"2022-02-08T08:40:13","slug":"dear-angry-lonely-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/?p=677","title":{"rendered":"Dear Angry Lonely Man"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Here we go again, you\u2019re huffing mad and triggered again,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Over something innocuous, just a couple doing things, still\ngot your noggin steamin\u2019,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He came straight out of a Disney film, the one that gets the\nprincess in the end, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She shared your physical characteristics, their very\npresence sent you spinning right \u2018round the bend,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your id racing into overdrive, powering the darkest corners\nof your mind,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Staring at \u2018em bitterly, hurling assumptions telephatically,\nsame recycled labels that you play with on the daily,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That he\u2019s led by his fetish, that she\u2019s only after his\nmoney, that he\u2019s a creep and a pervert, that she\u2019s drowning in self-hatred,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The media did you dirty, apparently, that\u2019s why she and\nothers like her run towards westerners,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Stereotyping killed your chances, mocked dudes like you for\nyour faces, speech patterns and the size of certain appendages, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>From there it\u2019s a slippery slope says you, now all other\nfemales are swerving you and your brothers,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s a whole new level of rejection, a special type of\nbetrayal,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Castrated by media and popular opinion, cucked by the female\nof your species,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On some level your resentment\u2019s understandable but truthfully\nyou\u2019re your own worst enemy,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If your assumptions are legit then others like you ain\u2019t\nshit,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Surprise surprise, many are flying with a co-pilot and some\nare even swirling,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s not just luck and they ain\u2019t the exception, don\u2019t\noverlook the power of self-confidence,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So much for that crutch you\u2019re carrying, that they with a\nfairer complexion are stealing all your women,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ever checked the mirror lately? Therein lies the first of\nyour problems,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When\u2019s the last time you took a shower? You look more\ndoughboy than Adonis,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Electricity bill must be poppin\u2019, total screen time\nsurpassing epic proportions,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What\u2019s it like living on instant noddles? Sleeping less than\n2 hours?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Who the fuck are you to demand their time and attention when\nyou ain\u2019t putting in the effort?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Miss \u2018em with your entitlement, a one-sided union ain\u2019t\nworth exploring,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No wonder you ain\u2019t getting any, you need to re-evaluate\nyour priorities,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sit down, we ain\u2019t done yet, time to hit you with a brutal\ndose of reality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Females ain\u2019t checking for an angry lonely man, that\u2019s just\nreal spit,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Got one life to live, Bro, how do you plan on spending it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While you\u2019re judging and pointing fingers your hypocrisy\u2019s\nlighting countless embers,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019re making mad incel losers of yourself and your fellow\nbrothers,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s ironic how you rail at being mocked, judged and stereotyped\nwhile doing the same to girls and the types of guys they like,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You don\u2019t know their story, not that it\u2019s any of your\nconcern,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some might corroborate your bullshit accusations, but for\nthe most part they just happen to meet, fall in love and exchange \u2018I do\u2019s\u2019 at a\npark, beach or the altar,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What of girls that are faithful for lack of a better term?\nWill you lump \u2018em with so-called self-haters?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bet you will anyway, that stems from your defeatist attitude\nand lack of self-awareness,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And what of the dudes that look like you who are winning,\ncould\u2019ve been held back by the same labels that are haunting ya,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They weren\u2019t hearing it, they defied it, went about their\nbusiness and came up triumphant,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You could learn something from \u2018em rather than mope around\ndragging leg irons,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You won\u2019t achieve catch of the day status while voluntarily\ntrapped in your self-imposed prison,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Focus on your own damn grass and quit peeking into other\npeoples\u2019 yards,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t like the hand that which you\u2019d been dealt? Quit bitching\nand change the motherfucking cards,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And if she ain\u2019t feeling ya due to shallow and prejudiced\nreasons, forget her and move on, there\u2019s plenty of fish in the ocean, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Each individual is entitled to their choice of partners and\nyes, you\u2019re included,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You too can be a baller, but there\u2019s only one way to achieve\nit,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Work on your damn self and polish your game, nothing good\ncomes out of entitlement,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Might have to grind harder than others but suck it up and\nget on with it,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acquire new skills, set some goals, improve your vocabulary,\nfix your habits and be healthy, no rush just move along steadily,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No one said you had to openly compete with others, eyes down\nand focus on your business, tell \u2018em via the noise generated from your\nsuccesses,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then before you know it you\u2019re turning heads, what once held\nyou back rendered inconsequential,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s where you\u2019re rewarded for rising above limitations\nand labels,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Feels good to be with someone with whom you\u2019re compatible,\ndoesn\u2019t it? To go through life with no limits or excuses, never mind needless\nburdens,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To hell with circumstances and fuck the rules, a better life\nis waiting,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The sky\u2019s the limit, level up and watch your story unfold as\nyou want it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here we go again, you\u2019re huffing mad and triggered again, Over something innocuous, just a couple doing things, still got your noggin steamin\u2019, He came straight out of a Disney film, the one that gets the princess in the end, She shared your physical characteristics, their very presence sent you spinning right \u2018round the bend, &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/?p=677\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Dear Angry Lonely Man&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-677","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorised"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/677","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=677"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/677\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=677"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=677"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=677"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}