{"id":598,"date":"2021-05-12T08:09:00","date_gmt":"2021-05-12T08:09:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/?p=598"},"modified":"2021-05-12T08:09:00","modified_gmt":"2021-05-12T08:09:00","slug":"holding-back-the-years-self-worth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/?p=598","title":{"rendered":"Holding Back The Years: Self-Worth"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>It\u2019s often said you can\u2019t love another unless you love\nyourself first,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Being kind to others be child\u2019s play while an inside job\nrequires hard work,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Expectations, everybody\u2019s got \u2018em, ain\u2019t no crime not to\nlive up to \u2018em,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We\u2019re only human, we win and we falter, fuck \u2018em if they\u2019re\nblind to your genuine efforts,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No two people are the same, differences extend to\ncapabilities, save for rarities and extreme anomalies,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gifts and natural talents, everybody\u2019s got \u2018em, for some immediately\napparent, others may search far and wide for it,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But there has to be a balance, hence the existence of\nweaknesses,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Folks be mad-flexing on the surface, ain\u2019t nobody buyin\u2019 it,\nbehind the scenes secrets heavily guarded,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With dedication they can be corrected, life\u2019s about\nperpetual growth and learning,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019ll stumble and fall, too, but you gotta trust the\nprocess,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s an exercise in futility, tying self-worth to what you\ncan and can\u2019t do,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Why let mistakes and failures totally consume you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Setbacks are a pain, that much is understandable, but will\nyou take steps towards redemption or chip away and crumble?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Realize, too, there\u2019s always someone better in some aspects,\nbut that don\u2019t mean you\u2019re useless and pathetic,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They may have a greater aptitude for it or perhaps a greater\nlevel of experience,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You won\u2019t always have the answers but no shame in admitting\ntemporary ignorance,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And you may dominate in other areas, rout the competition\nwith your abilities,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They\u2019ll look up to you like their idol, yet you\u2019re hung up\non perceived deficiencies,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Meanwhile you\u2019re neglecting what you\u2019re blessed with, gotta\nnurture \u2018em or lose \u2018em,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What you take for granted you\u2019ll part ways with, don\u2019t let\nyour assets become your losses, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Continue to learn and grow, become a jack of many trades,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Master the ones that matter, but missteps need not end in\nshame,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You must be brave enough to own \u2018em, only then will you be\nforgiven, then make a conscious effort never to repeat \u2018em,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Perfection\u2019s an illusion, to master all things, literally,\nis an impossibility, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If the key to your self-esteem is their approval, that\u2019s\nsome next-level insanity,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Reclaim your self-worth from the hands of others, they don\u2019t\ndeserve such power,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019re limited edition, never forget it, fuck \u2018em and their\nexpectations,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Twenty four hours in a day, each one nudging you towards the\nend,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They\u2019re gone forever once elapsed, will you waste \u2018em\nwarring with yourself?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Throw off the shackles they\u2019ve placed upon you and the ones\nself-inflicted,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Live a life that makes you proud first and foremost, only\nthen will you be truly living.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s often said you can\u2019t love another unless you love yourself first, Being kind to others be child\u2019s play while an inside job requires hard work, Expectations, everybody\u2019s got \u2018em, ain\u2019t no crime not to live up to \u2018em, We\u2019re only human, we win and we falter, fuck \u2018em if they\u2019re blind to your genuine &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/?p=598\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Holding Back The Years: Self-Worth&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-598","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorised"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/598","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=598"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/598\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=598"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=598"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=598"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}