{"id":594,"date":"2021-05-01T09:32:30","date_gmt":"2021-05-01T09:32:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/?p=594"},"modified":"2021-05-01T09:32:30","modified_gmt":"2021-05-01T09:32:30","slug":"she-aint-your-rival-bro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/?p=594","title":{"rendered":"She ain&#8217;t your rival, Bro"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>There you go again, daydreaming, same old subjects that the\nmind\u2019s regurgitating,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Comparing notes, mental inventories of various conquests,\nfame and former glories,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not sure if you made the grade, the competition\u2019s rather\nstiff,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eyes may roll and heads may shake when they learn with whom\nyou\u2019re competing with,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No this ain\u2019t no classroom shit, this is proper grown-up\nshit, somehow your missus is your secret competition,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yeah that\u2019s right, kinda strange ain\u2019t it? First let\u2019s take\na history lesson,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Seemed innocuous, that chance encounter, love found between\npolar opposites,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She was gifted, photogenic, talented, that combination\npayin\u2019 dividends,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Him from shakier foundations but defied the cynics, haters and\nthe party poopers, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Chance encounter on the subway after hours, protected her\nfrom pesky would-be predators,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Got to talking, kept her company \u2018til her ride arrived to come\ncollect her,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Exchanged numbers, ain\u2019t missed a chance to steal those precious\nconversations,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Year and a half together \u2018fore he sucked it up and asked her\nfor her hand in marriage, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lived happily ever after, that one can\u2019t be disputed,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But behind the laughs and tender moments a flame threatens\nto blow a gasket,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Her earning power, life achievements, public image, they be\ndwarfin\u2019 all of his,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Got him paranoid that they be judging why she\u2019s the one\nsupporting him,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No he ain\u2019t no hype man, slacker or hangers-on, certainly\nnot some trophy husband,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dude more than earns his keep, time ain\u2019t dimmed that heart,\nethos and the work ethic,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But he can\u2019t outshine her nor outwork her, got him running\non that hamster wheel,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Legs churning, hiding to nothing, in his mind he\u2019s still inadequate,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But it don\u2019t have to be that way, step off and count your\nblessings, bro,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She chose you from a line of suitors, surely you are someone\nspecial,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Why focus on perceived deficiencies than what you\u2019re bringin\u2019\nto the table?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She\u2019d have dropped your ass if you were useless and certainly\nif you\u2019re unstable,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Part ways with this toxicity, ain&#8217;t nothing noble with going on like this,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dudes be turning good gals off when they stay petty, childish,\nimmature and jealous, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She\u2019s your wife and not your rival, treating her as such will lead to your unraveling,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In the mirror lies your competition, it\u2019s clich\u00e9d but the\ntruth lies there among the drivel,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fuck what others say \u2018cuz if you play it right she\u2019ll always\nchoose to be with you,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s the long and short of it and it\u2019s really all that\nmatters, too.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There you go again, daydreaming, same old subjects that the mind\u2019s regurgitating, Comparing notes, mental inventories of various conquests, fame and former glories, Not sure if you made the grade, the competition\u2019s rather stiff, Eyes may roll and heads may shake when they learn with whom you\u2019re competing with, No this ain\u2019t no classroom shit, &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/?p=594\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;She ain&#8217;t your rival, Bro&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-594","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorised"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/594","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=594"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/594\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=594"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=594"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=594"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}