{"id":522,"date":"2020-09-20T09:25:44","date_gmt":"2020-09-20T09:25:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/?p=522"},"modified":"2020-09-20T09:25:44","modified_gmt":"2020-09-20T09:25:44","slug":"dignity-or-rage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/?p=522","title":{"rendered":"Dignity Or Rage?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>All things must pass, come to an end, everything\u2019s\ntemporary,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Common clich\u00e9s that we hear on the daily, ease of acceptance\nalso varies,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Youth and athleticism fade eventually, so can looks, money\nand status,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Change is constant and immune to resistance, some sit back\nand accept it while others fight hard to delay it,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Relationships are no different, not all remain rock solid, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some friendships are permanent while others last only for a\nmoment,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not all couples make it to the altar while others learn that\nvows won\u2019t always last forever,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maybe the decision\u2019s mutual, an expiry date\u2019s slapped on\nsome unions, it\u2019s unfortunate but neither party\u2019s left irreversibly wounded,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then there are couples shattered cuz one half committed the ultimate\nbetrayal, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It need not be a death sentence if the guilty repents and\nreinvents, both sides pick up the pieces and become whole again,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But more often than not it can\u2019t be salvaged, call it dead\non arrival,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s flat lines on the life support system, 9-1-1 ain\u2019t\nresuscitatin\u2019 nothin\u2019,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Scorned reacts in one of two ways, both on extreme ends\nof the scale,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maintain the stoicism of a trooper or embrace the path of\nthe hurt and enraged,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The former quietly turns the page, busy working on starting\nover to give in to the rage,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The latter trashes their ex at every opportunity, often\nthrough methods nothing short of cringy,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Warning the masses of that jerk\u2019s true colors,\nmetaphorically tarring and feathering \u2018em,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Putting up signs around town and debasing their cars and\nprized possessions,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If all goes well that coward\u2019s crimes will go viral online, sending\nthem duckin\u2019 and dodgin\u2019 but with nowhere to hide,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No one loves a cheater, therefore the masses must sympathize\nwith the former lover, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Revenge served cold and the audience will cheer and applaud\nyou for it,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But going overboard will leave some disturbed by your\nactions,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Since when do responsible adults resort to childish\ntantrums?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We get that you\u2019re mad but was airing your dirty laundry\npart of the game?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No one asked to hear the dirty details, have you any ounce\nof shame?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We get that they pushed you head-first, fully-clothed, into\na pool of indignity,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You could have climbed out and stayed out, instead you done\ncannonballed back in there willingly,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You eschew a dignified response in favor of bitter,\nobsessive behavior,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now you\u2019re bleeding supporters, but rest easy, they ain\u2019t\nsiding with that cheater,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But some may wonder if your shortcomings drove \u2018em into the\narms of another,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And they\u2019ll surely be concerned \u2018bout your kids, this can\u2019t\ndo \u2018em any good,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019re setting \u2018em up for ridicule from their peers \u2018round\nthe hood,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gotta be tough coming to terms with parents living separate\nlives, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yet you compound their trauma as you vent to them constantly\nlike a bitter ex-husband or wife,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Juicy gossip spreads faster than wildfire, \u2018cuz of you other\nkids\u2019ll be pointing and whispering,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Wondering aloud why their Mom or Pops were hoein\u2019, it\u2019s a\nrecipe for humiliation,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018Twas you who done bleated out loud \u2018bout how your other\nhalf thirsted then flirted, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Simped over then snogged another before fucking \u2018em behind\nyour back many times over,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fuck any good that they\u2019ve done previously to you and the\nchildren, strike that shit off the record,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They deserve to burn for eternity, tortured in the Ninth\nCircle by The Devil and his minions, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But it\u2019s your fault alone if your actions render your kids\nmisguided and damaged,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>An environment of toxicity and anger will lead to severe\nconsequences,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bitterness towards both parents, trauma manifested in an\ninability to love another,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Passing on the curse of family dysfunction, compounded by\nsevere anxiety and depression,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Infidelity hurts and wrecks lives, it\u2019s the actions of selfish\ncowards lacking the balls to break-up,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your anger\u2019s understandable but force-feeding others your\nfeelings is hella fucked-up,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Move on with your life quietly and with dignity, work hard\nand let your successes do the talking,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Make that fool regret their actions, you\u2019ll come out a winner\nwhile proving yourself a true role model.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>All things must pass, come to an end, everything\u2019s temporary, Common clich\u00e9s that we hear on the daily, ease of acceptance also varies, Youth and athleticism fade eventually, so can looks, money and status, Change is constant and immune to resistance, some sit back and accept it while others fight hard to delay it, Relationships &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/musicalmemories.whereishome.info\/?p=522\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span 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